关于本书 About the book
“直男癌”、“平权”这些词语想必大家都不陌生，面对女性在生活中遭遇的大大小小的暴力和不公，各种两性平等的呼声的运动也越来越多。为什么会出现这些问题呢？
《爱说教的男人》这本书就向我们呈现了当今文化中的“厌女症”，从日常生活对女性的冒犯到整个社会系统对强奸罪的纵容。
作者认为性别歧视的问题一直存在，而受影响的不仅仅是女性。女性主义并不是要让女性仇视男性，而是要解决影响到我们所有人的不平等问题。
本书金句 Key insights
● 对女性的性别歧视到处都有，表现形式更是多种多样，小到“男人说”这种微暴力，大到能让男人轻松从强奸罪中脱身的司法体系。
- Sexism is widespread throughout the world and manifests in many forms, from mi-croaggressions like mansplaining to justice systems effectively designed to let men get away with rape.
● 男人往往有意无意地觉得自己比女人更聪明、更有学问，所以呢，他们就觉得有责任居高临下地给女人上上课。
- Men often assume (perhaps unconsciously) that they’re more intelligent or knowl-edgeable than women, so they feel the need to teach them in a condescending or patronizing way.
● 的确，不是所有的男人都是强奸犯。但这不是重点，重点是所有女人都活在被强奸的威胁中。
- Sure，Not All Men are misogynists and rapists. That’s not the point. The point is that ，Yes All Women live in fear of the ones that are.
● 女人为自己伸张正义不成还要被妖魔化，这简直就是在伤口上撒盐。
- When women are demonized for speaking out, it only adds insult to the injury they’ve already endured.
● 人们认识到厌女症和性别歧视是一个社会问题，受影响的不仅仅是女性，这已经是很大的进步。
- The recognition that misogyny and sexism are societal problems that don’t exclusive-ly affect women was a big step forward.